I am hurting so bad...?

I am trying to establish a relationship with guy in Louisiana. I am in Dallas. He's a year and a half into a 3 year probation. He has nothing, But it didn't matter because I love him. I don't quite understand it but he treats me so poorly. the relationship is one sided. I have the money which is why I think he keeps coming back. Last year in july we were texting we loved each other, daily. He worked on the BP oil spill, so i barely heard from him. but out of the blue he went silent for three months. and reappeared in October. Begged to see me again. came over for a call while he was in town visiting his friend; he promised to come back in the evening and didn't hear from him again for five months this time. He's almost 39 and I am almost 54. I am trying my damnest to stay away from him, but my heart is SO CAUGHT UP. He reappeared this time early this month. we spent the weekend together two weeks ago; I paid for everything including his flight out. He has nothing. He's fresh out of prison, but there is some good in him, though it's hard to find right now. we had made plans to see each other this weekend; he has to get permission from the Probation Office; but he just overlooked it; HE didn't follow through; I kept asking if he'd gotten permission. just ignored it AND ME. so I went quiet on him. tired of his lying and not following through. he thinks it's abnormal for me to want to talk to him on the phone during the day. he thinks i am over ed. he thinks I am type A personality. But he pretends to want to be with me. he has text me four times today and called once. I am ignoring him FOREVER this time!!! please tell me something to help me keep strong. please, no judgment. thanks.